People are often mean to you by either ignoring you , or verbally saying something to you or else energetically being nasty.
Do you react by feeling bad and sad and wondering why they are like that with you while they seem perfectly wonderful with others ?
When you try to understand why , you look for the reasons that could justify their meanness towards you.
They aren’t mean to you because of you.
It isn’t personal.
It’s an immense judgment they have of themselves that you being around them triggers in their space that has them reacting with meanness.
Their meanness cannot be understood , it is a choice that they are making to be.
You are not defined by how others treat you. You are an infinite being with choice. Don’t let others define you. When you resist or react to them , they get to control you.
When you try to understand them , you have to hold onto a point of view of wrong or right.
The antidote to this is awareness and interesting point of view.
They can no longer control you when you have no point of view .
Be you and change the world. #under2minswithchandana