Change is a choice you make.
There is no good choice and no bad choice. This may confuse you as I say that , but the truth is that every choice you make creates something.
A choice made from the space of unconsciousness , self interest , greed , fear , anger , jealousy doesn’t create greater.
It stops you from growth .
You find yourself justifying why you chose something instead of taking responsibility for your choice.
On the other hand , a choice made from the space of consciousness and asking a question creates way greater , not just for you but for everyone around you that shows up as your future.
Time doesn’t change you.
Your choices change you.
Change is the only thing that’s permanent and eternally true.
If you try to stop or control change , you will destroy the future that could show up.
Your willingness to allow change instead of control it comes from the space of trust in the universe .
Are you allowing change or are you controlling it ?
Are you taking responsibility for change or are you being a victim of change ?
And on a final note , if you haven’t allowed change , you are probably stagnant !
So when people say – you have changed , yes you have !
Embrace it , don’t shy away.